JoJo's definition of FRIENDS is a bit different.
For me, friends who care about you, are someone who will scold and f@rk you deep deep when you did something wrong.
Sometimes nice advises won't make you listen. He had told you not to do stg like this, bla bla bla, nagging non stop. In the end you did it again. It's your bad HABIT-ABIT-BIT-IT.
Your friends bei tahan of your bad attitude or habit, he scolded you badly. You hurt, like a knife stab deep deep in your heart. You said a true friend should not treat you like that.
But you never know he scold you for you own good. They want you to change your bad attitude or grow even more mature. People prefer good words, they don't want true words.
What's wrong with you??!! Is it so hard for you to throw that in the right place?
A friend who care about you, will point out your mistakes, scold you for your own good, and help you when you're in big trouble, or even get himself inside the trouble.
A friend will not see you walk into the traps or back stab behind you.
Some people pretend they are your "friends". They just act friendly, smile in front of you, talk sweet to you and make you happy, mostly, you won't aware of this person's attitude, you thought they're friendly, they are your true good friends.
Ignore.
In the end, you step on the bombs. They knew earlier that you'll step on the bombs but they were lazy to warn you. They laughed behind you when you're in trouble. They pretend to comfort you by giving one or two cents in front of you.
So, of course, people who scold you does not means he care about you. If he scold you for your own good or mistakes, you may angry but thanks to him. Rather than he ignore you and let you repeat the same mistakes again. Now you know who is your friends?
P/S: These days really busy. No time to online, surfing, blogging, chatting...
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